Don’t Fear the 3:00AM Monsters


Everything is so magnified and dramatic when you are tired, half asleep and the sun is not out, isn’t it? I am convinced this is when Stephen King gets his best material for a new book.

Well, I had one of those mornings this morning.

It all started last night as we were getting ready for bed. Our ‘letting the dogs out one last time’ routine was the catalyst.

Our neighbors are apparently not home. Their house was dark except for the flood light on the side of their home. As I was trying to get B into the house <he was barking at something outside> I listened and I really thought I heard what sounded like someone walking on rocks back there. But, it was so far back in our yard (or their’s) and so dark, I couldn’t see anything. Nervous, I got the dogs in, locked up and closed the curtains, figuring that if I can’t see it or hear it, it isn’t there?… yeah, apparently I wasn’t convinced of that either.

Around 3:33 AM, B started barking <very unusual in the middle of the night>. My adrenaline started pumping and the monsters sprung into action.

I quieted B down and I checked on the kids. I sat there on the bed — K is already snoring, but I’m wide AWAKE!

I couldn’t hear well enough so I got up and turned the ceiling fan the humidifier off. As I lay there, I heard some noises outside. Was that someone walking out there? STILL? It’s been like FIVE HOURS!!!

Then our wind chimes (actually they are more like wind bells… see photo) in our trees, which normally produce a nice random chime now and again seemed to be GONGING regularly. A rhythm? Was someone in our yard trying to get our attention by this?

What did they want? <Just go away, I want to sleep>.

I looked out the window and of course couldn’t see a thing, but I continued to peer out carefully so “they” couldn’t see me. The wind wasn’t blowing and as I looked out the window the gonging stopped.

I hopped into bed and I made a HUGE mistake by waking my snoring K up to share this elaborate scenerio with him.

He politely stared into space with me for while, while we quietly listened….

….our collective assessment of the situation was that it was a little gusty out there and that for the sake of regaining control of the situation <getting more sleep> it was just God having a little fun with some wind, our chimes and our thoughts.

Go away you little Three AM Monster!!!

When I got up this morning, I almost forgot about that pesky Three AM Monster. That was until my dear hubby called me into another room. He was very subtle when he asked me to go in the front room, away from the kids, as if to tell me something important.

Without bustin’ up at all, he said:

“Hey… come here. I actually heard the chimes doing that rhythm as well, but I didn’t want to alarm you last night. But… when I came downstairs this morning, I looked outside and saw a guy in a dark hooded robe, with a scythe in one hand and the other hand just banging away on our wind bell.”

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You Can Always Count on Friends

I am not a person who can easily ask for help, it is usually my very last resort. But, with the insanely full week I am having I was blessed with some really great friends. My neighbor took H & G for 1.5 hours this afternoon while I went to set up our annual garage sale. Daddy got home, to feed and transport G to me so that I could take her to her dress rehearsal this evening. What a huge blessing to me.

If that was not enough my very dear, dear friend, K offered to make dinner for Kip and my kids so that I wouldn’t have to. I think I have only had two people in my life offer such a blessing to me. I am so grateful to both of these awesome ladies for generously offering their time to assist me. It means so very much to me. THANK YOU!!!

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Fun with Friends

A leisurely hike with friends on a Saturday morning, what could be better?

  • Perfect weather.
  • Great fun for the kids.
  • Great fellowship with friends
  • Good way to get a decent workout in.
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Got Chocolate Milk?

“May I have some chocolate milk, please?” ~ G

<Silence>

“May I have some chocolate milk, please?” ~ G

“Mom is sleeping G” ~ K

“Dad, “May I have some chocolate milk, please?” ~ G

“I don’t even know what that is” ~ K

“Yes you do, daddy! It is chocolate in milk, in a cup, a sippy cup!” ~ G

This lil one keeps us laughing.  God Bless her!

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Fun Coininkydink

I wonder if it was a vibe or a family thing. But, today we had a couple possible options on what to do for dinner.  When all was said and done, our craving for our favorite pizza won.  We asked our family friends to meet us at Guiseppies for dinner.   After a great dinner and fun with friends we loaded our family up in our car and were ready to back out when suddenly we saw…..Grandma & Grandpa B arrive!!!!!

What on Earth???  (Funny)

Mom and Dad were meeting my Aunt and Uncle for dinner at G’s too!  Talk about amazing.  It had to be a vibe or in the air.  Are things like that just fun?  God does have a sense of humor, doesn’t he?

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Heaven Sent

heaven01_tn1.jpgheaven02_tn.jpgAnyone who has kids knows how wonderful being a parent is, even during the more difficult seasons. That being said, I am amazed how easy it is to get wrapped up in a difficult phase and how it can consume you with worry, guilt and fear. (That probably will never change, right?) As parents, we want what is best for our children; we want them to be healthy and happy children of God.

As much as we know WE are not in control as much as we would like to be, our primary role as parents is to protect them and to train them up. We are to look to our Creator for that wisdom and trust that He knows all of our needs and concerns and the will provide for us and take care of us. Simple? Not at all.

In the midst of a challenging season with my baby girl, I am consumed with worry and fear. “Is she okay?”, “Is something medically wrong with her?”, “Did something happen to her that has traumatized her?”. So many questions and no answers.

Frustrating? You betcha. It is equally frustrating for her, she does not know how to describe what she is feeling or why. She just feels it. I feel it would be even more traumatic if I dismiss her feelings and her pains and so we persevere in the quest to rule things out.

I am praying for her often and I sit and wait somewhat patiently for that gentle answer that God will give me. I know He has me covered as He has sent many a messenger to encourage me and come along side me with hope, encouragement and loving advice. Just this weekend, a complete ‘stranger’, a fellow parent in G’s dance class, saw our battle and frustration and she touched my arm, looked me in the eyes and said “Mom, it is okay. She is just fine, we went through this with our eldest child. The world will not end.” What she said after that hit me the most. She said, “She is what matters most right now. You can give her what she needs and it is OKAY!”

Now, I know all of this, BUT, I wasn’t acting accordingly. I needed for this stranger — fellow dance mom, now friend — to gently and ever so kindly open my eyes to what matters most. I am so grateful for those precious gifts that God gives me, these special telegrams delivered by God.

My new friend was so right, as soon as I stood along side my daughter, she was fine. She was able to function without fear and enjoy herself. Is that not what God does for us?

I am ever so grateful for this friend who had the courage to step in and wrap her arms around someone she did not know and share some of her wisdom with me.

We are still working through some insecurities with our daughter but I feel that with continued love and prayers from the two people who were entrusted to care for her, she will be just fine.

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Disappointing Discovery

The Golden Arches (a.k.a McDonald’s) has decided to jump into the political arena. Like many other large companies in America, MD’s is  jumping onto  the G&L agenda.

We have an obligation to use our size and resources to make a difference in the world … and we do“.  

Hummm… with so many good things they could do, why this?  

It sure would be nice if ‘it’  (making a difference) was to promote healthy eating or literacy for children or something to the masses. I don’t normally share my political and social views, but I was really disappointed to hear this news. 

Alas,  all the more reason to stop going to the ‘tarnished arches’.  We will stick with:  Chick-Fil-A and Subway.  

Click here for full article and to send a letter to MD’s.  

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Yard Work

Yard Work

  • Lawn Bags $15.00
  • Rake $27.00
  • 4 hours of hard work ~$500.00
  • Ibuprofen $6.88
  • Nice, relaxing soak in the bathtub….PRICELESS
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